Cunnilingus Tips – Expert’s Guide To Cunnilingus
Overview
- Get comfortable and enjoy the moment
- Use your tongue, fingers and adult products to spice things up
- Try flavoured lubricants if you don't like the taste
- Use personal wipes beforehand for a fresh taste
- Try different positions and communicate
- Keep a rhythm to stimulate
- Get your whole face into it to create pressure
- Experiment and keep an open mind
What’s The ULTIMATE Stress Reliever? SEX!
Low Libido
Prostate Cancer Prevention
The power of Prostate Massage
So, what can you do? Prostate massage. Yes this is a thing. And the great thing is it can actually reduce your risk of prostate cancer! The prostate is a part of the man that when stimulated provides pleasurable sensations. You know how the g-spot on a female works. Well guys, this is your sacred spot. So not only is prostate massage a healthy activity it is also a very enjoyable one also. During the massage, the prostate is stimulated both on the outside against the perineum and also on the inside through your rectum. Applying pressure to these areas helps achieve good results. Ah the rectum, that taboo spot a lot of males still find a little awkward in venturing into. We get it. But it really is doing your health wonders by exploring it. And this is also why we have prostate stimulators (the vibrating variety in particular are very popular) to help with men who want to do the massaging themselves or with their partner. Using it with your partner is another level of intimacy and trust. Adds even more to the experience. Other added bonuses of prostate massage is that it helps to treat erectile dysfunction. Many men have found it effective in producing more potent ejaculations.Frequent ejaculation
Frequent ejaculation in some studies has shown that it has reduced the risk of cancer. Example being in a study of men in their 20s who reported ejaculating at least 21 times per month were actually 19% less likely to develop prostate cancer then those who ejaculated 7 times per month or less. And it’s not just the younger ages – frequent ejaculation is men during those naughty 40s also appeared to reduce the risk of prostate cancer by 22%! So really ejaculating more often is doing your health wonders. A prostate massage at least once a month is a great start to leading the way to a healthy sexual routine and a healthy functional prostate. And to be honest, any men with a swollen prostate could really make use of a prostate massage at least once a week to help reduce the swelling, as well as improve urinary function and ones sexual performance.Top Sex Tips for Men
1) The power of kisses

2) Extend Foreplay – by A LOT

3) The “other” form of foreplay

4) The power of words

5) Chill down on the porn!

6) Make some noise

7) Try sex in different locations

8) Go down, down

9) Touch and Play

10) Share your Fantasies and Kinks!

11) Have a bedside tool kit!

Cunnilingus Tips – Expert’s Guide To Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is oral sex performed on women and is greatly satisfying for most women. So if you haven't perfected your oral sex technique, you're most likely going to have some cunnilingus performance anxiety. But when cunnilingus is performed well, it will impress you to a partner like nothing else can.
So whether you're a seasoned cunnilingus expert or are a beginner, here are a few oral sex tips to improve your cunnilingus technique. Start off by finding a comfortable position, as this will help with stamina as well as your own personal pleasure. Firstly try licking her like an ice cream cone. Use some big soft licks with a wide flat tongue to stimulate all the nerves in the genital area.
Go slow to make her feel like a yummy dessert being savoured, then you can speed it up a bit while focusing more on the clitoris. This will help to push her towards orgasm. It's important to build up the intensity level gradually and once you're into it, try to use your whole face to bury yourself in the vagina area. Get your tongue in as far as you can, or use your nose for more added pressure. Not only does this feel good, it lets her know you are really into the taste and sensations.
Overview
- Get comfortable and enjoy the moment
- Use your tongue, fingers and adult products to spice things up
- Try flavoured lubricants if you don't like the taste
- Use personal wipes beforehand for a fresh taste
- Try different positions and communicate
- Keep a rhythm to stimulate
- Get your whole face into it to create pressure
- Experiment and keep an open mind
Naughty But Nice believes that if your eyebrows aren't sticky, then you're not doing it right! You can also insert fingers in her vagina while licking the clit. As your tongue licks up pull down with your fingers so that you get a rhythm going.
Rev things up even more by slipping a G-spot vibrating adult toy into her while you're going down on her. She will love it! You can also use this vibrating adult toy under your chin, to give your mouth that wonderful vibrational feeling! If lying back during cunnilingus is too inactive for her, then simply let her hop on top. From there she can control the pressure and area of contact.
To make this position even more fun, use some basic bondage gear adult toys and get tied down to the bed before she starts. Just licking up and down means that chances are that it will get boring for both parties involved. So it's a good idea to vary your movements, use your lips, sex toys and flavoured lube in addition to your tongue. Gentle suction is a nice variation on the licks and lick it while maintaining the suction.
Also change positions, and use your hands. If you really want to give something special, you can enjoy her anus by using a dental dam to protect your mouth. The sky's the limits, so remember to get your whole creative mind involved.
Most women orgasm in response to rhythmic stimulation, so if you're in a groove that is building her up, don't suddenly change what you're doing. Finding the balance between variety and consistency is the art to being an oral sex expert. The juicier your make it, the better it feels. Experiment with edible lubricant or maybe some lubricants that warms when you blow on it. For gentle, hygienic cleansing before hand, you might like to try some personal wipes to keep things tasting fresh.
Cunnilingus is an age old favourite for couples wanting to create close intimacy and vaginal stimulation in a interesting and sexy new way. If you follow the tips provided and introduce some sex toys or adult products, you'll soon be teasing and pleasing her into orgasmic pleasure in no time at all!
Top Sex Tips for Women
1) Take control
Communication during sex is the ultimate key to great sex, and this does not mean “dirty talk” although that is also fun. We mean communicating on what you like or what you don’t. if you don’t like something then say it. It’s not doing anyone any favors if you don’t express how you do or don’t like something. Don’t rely on ambiguous gestures and noises. If you don’t like something, then guide them to how you would prefer it – sex is not the time to be shy. You want to try something in a different angle? Then say it. Generally, it’s expected that the guy be the dominant one in a sexual encounter. We say – why? Turn it around and you take over. Keep him on his toes (you’ll probably even see a little sparkle in his eye)2) Do your part
Let’s face it nothing is worse than a sexual partner who just lays there (like a dead fish). Get motivated, be into it! Its sex! It’s meant to be fun! If you’re just going to lay there then really you’re nothing better than a slightly warmer blow up doll. Look we get it, even Great sex can get a little bit monotonous so change it up – try sex in a new location. Maybe the lounge, in the car or even on the kitchen bench! Maybe try a little role play, or maybe something as sensual as taking a bath together.3) Fore – what? Foreplay!
Men need foreplay too! Yes you read that correctly. Think of it as an intro into the main event. And we don’t just mean a stroke here and a rub there. Mental Foreplay. This can start throughout the day. Little texts and messages throughout the day. Romance, seduction and every emotional aspect of sex works on men too. A lot of the fun in foreplay is in the mind – so have fun with it.4) Quality over Quantity
More sex doesn’t mean better sex! If you are concerned that you and your partner aren’t bonking like rabbits. Don’t. Most couples have sex once a week and it’s been found that the more energy you are putting into your regular weekly romp the better it is over the long haul. You may think that men want sex 100% of the time. Not the case. Don’t always wait for him to initiate. If you’re in the mood , and he’s not acting, then GO FOR IT. Dirty talk! The power of some sexy banter in the bedroom is seriously underplayed. Not the easiest thing for some woman to do without feeling like a fish out of water. Read an erotic novel and get ideas from there. So…many…naughty…innuendoes. And ladies – talk to your gal pals. You’d be surprised with the things some of them have stored in their dirty talk vault.5) Exercise & done skimp out on the D! (vitamin D!..)
Believe it or not, exercise is good for your sex drive. Exercise improves the circulation in your body, and this includes the blood to your genitals. This extra flow of blood increases your desire and lifts your mood. And really when did those endorphins ever really hurt anyone? And as for the vitamin D, we weren’t kidding about it being good for your sexual health. Too much sun can damage the skin (we have all heard the slip, slop, slap motto), vitamin D is essential for estrogen production in women and testosterone production in men. It boosts your libido. Have you ever noticed that you tend to feel on the friskier side during those summer months – well this is the reason why.6) Experiment & Kinks
Have you got a kink? You will need to tell them. Especially if it’s of the variety of liking a bit of choking around the neck, or maybe you like your hair pulled. These are things you need to voice as they aren’t likely to just go out on a limb and assume that’s your thing or whether doing so will put them in jail. If you want something, then just ask for it. (there’s that communication thing again…) Shopping for toys together can also be fun. (Naughty but Nice online has everything you need by the way – if you were wondering where to go). This could mean couple vibrators, to massage oils and flavored lubricants to blindfolds and handcuffs.7) They love how you taste down there!
So you haven’t had time to tame hairs on your legs, nor have you been able “freshen” up down there, and you don’t smell like you’ve walked through a field of bath bombs. Don’t stress! As long as you have the basic hygiene under control, it’s really not the be all to end all if you aren’t pristine at all times down there. A lot of women can get really self conscious about this – but don’t worry. Men actually love the way you taste down there. But while I’m on the talk of oral – don’t do it halfway. Men love also love the act of receiving and if you’re doing it half-assed or like it’s some kind of chore, he will sense this. Honestly ladies – try some flavored lubricants, You’ll be sucking like it’s your last dessert. Just remember males will be ultra sensitive down there after oral also. So be gentle ladies.8) Morning and Afternoon delight
Men and women handle the weekly life stresses differently and because of this, couples can sometimes feel a little mismatched. You aren’t alone. Men see sex as a stress reliever while women want to have sex after they’ve had time to unwind… See the issue here?! So an alternative is to have sex in the morning! (ignoring any morning breathe) A males testosterone levels peak in the morning. Another alternative is to have sex on the weekend in the afternoon. A little weekend afternoon delight! Women tend to ovulate in the afternoon, this means the optimal hormone level for female sexual desire is during this time. Don’t forget sex is a lot of cardio – so don’t be afraid to jump on top and take the reins for a bit – he will appreciate it. Lastly, don’t forget to pee after sex! It honestly surprises us how many women don’t understand the importance of doing this within 30min of having sex. UTI’s are real ladies!Anal Sex Tips – The Ultimate Guide
So Why Anal?
Well for men, anal penetration stimulates the prostate (male g-spot), which in doing so can result in deeper, more intense and longer lasting orgasms. In fact, guys you can have an orgasm and quite an intense orgasm at that from stimulation of the prostate gland alone! I bet a lot of you never even realised this... As for women, you have up to 8000 or so sensory nerve endings found in the clitoris that can reach as far as the anus. So as well as that shared connection of sensory nerves, a thin membrane is all the separates the vaginal cavity from the rectal cavity. Therefore, some women find that touching the anal area or using an anal toy is highly erotic and can lead to more intense orgasms.So what are the guidelines to Anal Sex?
For Anal play to be successful and enjoyable you really do need to follow some basic guidelines. This is so all parties involved get the most enjoyment possible from the experience.- Don’t try it if you don’t want to! Cannot stress this enough.
- Relax your body – maybe have a couple of drinks to help with this.
- Go SLOW! Rushing into it is never going to end well for anyone involved.
- Use a good quality “thicker” lube (Astroglide gel – available at naughty but nice online is our top pick here)
- Condoms are always a good idea. Safe sex guys!
- Listen to your body.
- Listen to your partner! Communication is key!
- Clean toys thoroughly with a proper adult toy cleaner (again available to you from Naughty But Nice online)
- NEVER switch an anal toy from the Anus to the vagina - Bacteria guys!!